結婚について

 I'm sorry it's been so long since I've been here.

My mental health is not so good at the moment. It's mainly about love and fearing for the future that hasn't happened yet.


There are three challenges in life: the first is the challenge of work, the second is the challenge of friendships, and the third is the challenge of love. And the later they are, the harder they are to solve.

From Adler.


Just like you.

Autumn is my favorite season, but it's also quite sentimental and makes me feel sad inside.



Well, there was a big news in Japan yesterday.

Princess Mako of the Imperial Family and Ms. Kei Komuro got married.

However, it took three years for this marriage to take place. 


The emperor family can be said to be the family of Japanese gods, so it is almost as if they are not human.

After the war, they were afraid of being worshipped too much, so they are here today as a symbol, but I believe that Japanese people have a special admiration for the emperors who pray for the safety of the Japanese people. 


If the Princess were to marry into the general public, it would mean that she would leave the Emperor's family and become an ordinary person. 


There are a certain number of people who do not speak well of the emperor family, who have a somewhat conceited view that the emperors live off the taxes we pay.

But they have very little of the freedom that we have.

They are trained to always admire a smile and think of the people before themselves.



And this time, there was a violent bashing of my fiancé.

It was appropriate for this time of the year, and the slander took place mainly on the Internet. 


Some of it may be close to the truth.

But most of the time, we don't know what the facts are.

No one has the right to accuse us of knowing everything. 


Marriage is a mutual decision and commitment.

They are both adults, and they are responsible for their own actions.


I think it's great that the two of you were able to discuss your current problems one by one and come up with an ideal style of marriage.


I questioned the nerve of a stranger who could so easily say that it was unsuitable. 


I heard that Mako suffered from PTSD. Mental illness is not easily cured. 


I only know about it from the Japanese media.

I would love to know the views of readers from different countries on this marriage in the comments! 


Please comment a lot!



Comments

  1. mikaOctober 27, 2021 at 1:54 AM

    Fall is my favorite season too. There have been many storms in my area lately. They are dangerous, but beautiful.

    I'm sorry your mental health has not been good lately. I hope you can overcome that soon. Please talk to people you feel safe talking to about it. Sometimes, i have problems with my mental health too.

    I am glad that princess Mako married her former class mate. It took a long time. I also heard she has PTSD from the media. I hope she will be happy in New York with her husband.

    -Mika

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    1. あかねOctober 27, 2021 at 3:02 AM

      Autumn is beautiful and has a cruel side. May your mental health improve. We can encourage each other in the United States and Japan. I hope they can live happily in America, a country of freedom 😊

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  2. cris2469October 28, 2021 at 11:47 AM

    I agree with what you wrote in your post, I often read news that is not news, people who judge other people without having any rights, in Italy they say ... live and let live.
    Mako and her husband have the right to make their choices, right or wrong, they are married and will stay married for the rest of their lives or they will divorce in 15 days it is always their problem, in any case I hope they are happy .
    The colors of autumn are not comparable with any other season, but the scent that you smell in spring is magical :)

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    1. あかねNovember 16, 2021 at 4:27 AM

      Happiness is decided by the people themselves. People always interfere too much with others and lose sight of their happiness. I don't want to be that

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